英语高手！求助！用英语paraphrase这句话。用英语！！！！！

去掉 before的话 就是no matter what kind of your love or friend is,and no matter what advantages or disdvantages your your lover or friend has ,you should accept him or her .nobody is perfect and you should love your friends unconditionaliy. 或者另一个就是if you want to distinguish lover form friend ,you should know what a lover or a friend should be and what kind of part he or she can't paly. 确实像楼上说的不怎么通 你有可能 少打或多打一些单词。

i guess that means maybe you should know the difference between lover and friend, because friendship and real love are not the same thing?

在明白爱与友谊之前，你的爱人与朋友是他们最初的样子，又有着与此不同的灵魂。

之前，你可以证明你的爱是真实的爱，你的友谊是真正的友谊，你的情人或朋友，不仅因为它们是什么，也不管他们什么都没有。

这段话应该没有还有吧，这不象是个完整的句子，不怎么说的通样的