In every parent mind, intentionally or unintentionally have a kind of consciousness, their children love how tube to tube, love how to schedule to arrange, what personality no personality, anyway in children in front, is always without my permission. That in another way to see that this child is like your private property - you see zha zha that no matter what is the feelings of children, don't care about the view of others, the more you talk to the child said what respect, individuality development of child personality respect protection.
This may explain why many parents hard-earned pay all after harvest is not happy, but the pain. Because as parents of you couldn't have respect child's wishes, give myself only want to give, as long as you want.