Jiaming is a tall boy, from the second grade started, he was sent to a boarding school. "Schools are strange, I don't have a friend, wronged only against the wall cry, feel very lonely." In the BBS, home but confessed, boarding schools, each week, and parents can go home a little opportunity to meet, exchange also decrease. Dad, I think he is very strict with him any good talk, saw him in fear. Jiaming character thus become more introverted, more withdrawn. Some time ago and dad quarrel, he even gave vent to boarding school for parents, the resentment.
"We send him to boarding schools, is to want to let him get exercise, let him learn in school family in independence, dad and thought that he would get so ugly." Jiaming mother ms wong says, just began, the children were weeping, every time back as I grew older, the home also communicate with parents, just hide in the Internet or watching TV in the room of external seemed very strange. Ms wong some penitence sending her son to boarding school.
Children boarding independence enhanced
Primary and middle school students live on campus is light weight? Which pros and cons Scene: a young mother thinks, children boarding can bring a lot of advantages. Her son was in primary school, grade one already boarding a year. "Son was very dependent on me, character is an introvert, besides family outside, he basic didn't start talking to people. Since the dormitory later, his personality is bright, also willing to talk to strangers."
And the young mother holding also view of another parent said: "my child had never do household chores, dormitory, home oneself will wash clothes helping with the housework. He thinks, the dormitory to cultivate children's independence, and to reduce dependence on their parents have the help very much.
The naysayers civilians were also quite a few. A tall boy that advise, says it's not adapt to live on campus life, at school what to do to yourself, and lodge tube teacher and will not patience taught.
A parents said, son live, character becomes short-tempered, and school bad management has the very big relations.
Before boarding school should know more
Guangzhou DiBaShiLiu high school principal CengQingHua considers whether to send their children to boarding schools, age is a very important reference factors. Children should have life of the cognitive and adaptability, on the way to school lodging, like jiaming second grade age still small, be boarding school is hard to adapt to the new life.
Guangzhou bureau in token of LiWeiCheng argues that, to the concrete analysis. If a boy, can be sent to school lodging, because now a lot of boys lack masculinity, to school accommodation can be honed his will, develop his sense of competition. While girls psychology than fragile, to family salt-dependence strong, still don't live on campus as well.
LiWeiCheng think, parents to send their children to boarding schools, besides should know the school before lodging and other hardware facilities outside, still should understand school dormitory management, student soft environment group, etc.
学校让大学生住校是对的,但强制性的去做就有点过了,既然为了学生好,就减轻点学生的负担吧,少收点费不行吗?
咱们共同商量商量,我们毕竟还是在求学,不要让我们过早的进入社会,学生在外面租房不只是学生的原因,学校也应该有责任的,即使是强制,也不会让大学生认可,我想还是会有人冒风险去租的,毕竟年轻呢.这个矛盾不会就这么解决的.
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