with和by的区别？

一、表示使用有形的工具时,通常用with来表示.例如：\x0d\x0a用钢笔写 write with a pen\x0d\x0a用肉眼看 see with naked eyes\x0d\x0a用锤子敲打 strike with a hammer\x0d\x0a用秒表计量 measure with a stop watch\x0d\x0a用空气冷却 cool with air\x0d\x0a用毛巾擦 rub with towel\x0d\x0a二、表示采用某种方式或手段时,用by表示.例如：\x0d\x0a用无线电联系 reach by radio\x0d\x0a用耳机收听 listen to by earphone\x0d\x0a用手工制造 make by hand\x0d\x0a用电话通知 give information by telephone\x0d\x0a用信通知他 let him know by letter\x0d\x0a注意：作“用”讲时,by和with的区别在于：with表示行为动作的工具,后面的名词一般要有冠词；by表示动作的手段,后面的名词一律不带冠词.

一、表示使用有形的工具时,通常用with来表示.例如：
用钢笔写 write with a pen
用肉眼看 see with naked eyes
用锤子敲打 strike with a hammer
用秒表计量 measure with a stop watch
用空气冷却 cool with air
用毛巾擦 rub with towel
二、表示采用某种方式或手段时,用by表示.例如：
用无线电联系 reach by radio
用耳机收听 listen to by earphone
用手工制造 make by hand
用电话通知 give information by telephone
用信通知他 let him know by letter
注意：作“用”讲时,by和with的区别在于：with表示行为动作的工具,后面的名词一般要有冠词；by表示动作的手段,后面的名词一律不带冠词.

表示使用有形的工具时，通常用with来表示。
表示采用某种方式或手段时，用by表示
举例一：
Mrs Clinton was huddled with advisers at her headquarters.
克林顿夫人和顾问聚在总部秘谈。
举例二：
I've never really been in love with anyone.
我从来没有真正爱上过谁。
举例三：
Temporarily marooned at home by my injured knee
我由于膝伤暂时无法出门
举例四：
The defeat was taken with equanimity by the leadership.
领导层坦然地接受了失败。

看你连什么动词了
不过可以约莫来说 with 是一起/有 by 是被/如何(表示方式)/经过/到某个地方/在...旁边
其实这样说很误导，因为毕竟不符合的多多了
来几个例子:

With
I went to the mall with my friends. 一起
I wrote this letter with a lot of care. 有
Are you with me? 有在听我说的吗/懂吗？

By
The letter was received by the mailman. 被
I came up with this idea by brainstorming. 如何 (表示方式)
The pedestrain walked on by without even taking a glance. 经过
Please stop by to say hi. 到某个地方
I will stand by you when you need me. 在...旁边

介词by with和on表示使用工具时的区分